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Making an Offer & Negotiating

A practical guide to choosing an offer price, understanding contract terms, protecting your interests, and negotiating with confidence.

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A practical buyer resource from Caleb Bonderenka, real estate agent and licensed Michigan builder.

Start with a strategy, not just a number

A strong offer balances price, terms, timing, risk, and what matters to the seller. The goal is to purchase the right property on terms you understand—not simply to win a bidding contest.

  • Review recent comparable sales, active competition, and the property’s condition.
  • Determine your comfortable payment and total cash needed before deciding on an offer.
  • Discuss your priorities and walk-away limits with your buyer’s agent.
Buyer tip: An asking price is a marketing decision. It is not necessarily the property’s market value.
1 Offer strategy

Study comparable sales and market conditions

Your offer should reflect evidence about the home and the local market.

  • Compare recently closed homes with similar location, size, condition, features, and lot characteristics.
  • Account for differences such as renovations, garages, basements, acreage, and unusual property features.
  • Consider days on market, price reductions, competing offers, and how quickly similar properties are selling.
Buyer tip: Automated estimates can be a starting point, but they cannot replace a property-specific comparison.
2 Offer strategy

Understand the terms beyond purchase price

Two offers at the same price can have very different costs and risks.

  • Review earnest money, financing type, down payment, proposed possession, included fixtures and personal property, and any requested seller concessions.
  • Confirm how appraisal, inspection, financing, title, and other contingencies work under the actual purchase agreement.
  • Ask about seller priorities without assuming they will accept or reject particular terms.
Buyer tip: A higher offer with substantial concessions or uncertainty may be less attractive than a cleaner offer at a lower price.
3 Offer strategy

Coordinate the offer with your lender

Your financing plan should support the promises you make in the contract.

  • Get a current preapproval and confirm the loan program, expected cash to close, and payment range.
  • Discuss any seller-paid closing costs, rate buydowns, appraisal-gap proposals, or financing deadlines with your lender before offering them.
  • Understand that lender approval and appraisal are separate steps; preapproval is not final loan approval.
Buyer tip: Never promise to cover an appraisal shortfall without confirming where that cash would come from.
4 Offer strategy

Protect your opportunity to investigate

The offer determines what investigations you can perform and when.

  • Discuss a realistic inspection period and whether specialized reviews may be needed for sewer lines, wells, septic systems, structures, or other concerns.
  • Understand the specific notice requirements and remedies in the inspection clause before signing.
  • Consider title, survey, zoning, insurance, condominium documents, or municipal requirements when relevant.
Buyer tip: Waiving protections can make an offer more competitive, but it can also shift significant risk to you. Make that decision deliberately.
5 Offer strategy

Know how earnest money works

An earnest money deposit demonstrates commitment, but its treatment depends on the signed agreement.

  • Confirm the deposit amount, due date, holder, and acceptable delivery method.
  • Review the conditions under which the deposit may be returned, released, or disputed.
  • Keep proof of payment and follow contract instructions rather than relying on verbal assurances.
Buyer tip: Earnest money is not automatically refundable just because you change your mind.
6 Offer strategy

Handle counteroffers and multiple-offer situations

Negotiation is a process of evaluating tradeoffs—not simply increasing the price.

  • A seller may accept, reject, or counter an offer; the parties are not under contract until the necessary acceptance and delivery requirements are met.
  • Evaluate a counteroffer as a complete package, including deadlines, concessions, repairs, and possession.
  • In a multiple-offer situation, set your maximum comfortable terms in advance; do not assume you will get another chance to revise.
Buyer tip: Ask your agent to explain the risks of escalation clauses, appraisal-gap terms, and shortened contingency periods before using them.
7 Offer strategy

Put every agreement in writing

Clear documentation prevents confusion during a fast-moving transaction.

  • Make sure the written purchase agreement identifies the property, parties, price, inclusions, contingencies, and deadlines accurately.
  • Review any addenda and counteroffers together so that the final terms are consistent.
  • Do not rely on verbal promises about repairs, appliances, credits, or closing arrangements.
Buyer tip: Read the final signed documents and keep a copy of every amendment.
8 Offer strategy

After acceptance, act on the deadlines

An accepted offer begins the next phase of the purchase, not the end of negotiations and due diligence.

  • Deliver earnest money as required and promptly schedule inspections and specialized evaluations.
  • Coordinate lender documents, insurance quotes, title review, appraisal, and any association or municipal requirements.
  • Track contingency dates and submit notices or amendment requests in the required manner.
Buyer tip: Missing a deadline can change your options even when a concern is legitimate.

Your next practical step

Before making an offer, ask your buyer’s agent to walk through a comparable-sales analysis and a draft purchase agreement. Decide what you can afford, what you need to investigate, and which terms you are unwilling to waive.

Buyer tip: The best offer is one you understand and can confidently follow through on.

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I'm Caleb Bonderenka. As a real estate agent with more than a decade of experience and a licensed Michigan builder, I help buyers evaluate properties, understand contract terms, and negotiate with their interests in mind.

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This guide is general educational information, not legal, lending, or tax advice. Purchase agreements, deadlines, and buyer rights vary by transaction. Consult qualified professionals for property-specific questions.